Do I Really Need a Woman?
I feel like in Korea everyone is obsessed with not being alone and cannot be alone anywhere. People have to be with a friend, their family, in a group of other guys, a group of other women, or with their significant other. People constantly say to me "aren't you lonely?, you go shopping or sightseeing by yourself?" all in almost shocked ways. Then a usual question that is typical is "do you have a girlfriend?" followed by "Why not? You are so young and handsome." Okay, these are not inpolite and even a compliment here, but dear God! Then I am often told, "it is easy for you to find a girlfriend and have many girlfriends while you stay here in Korea." My usual response is "hm.. . good to know" or "if it happens it happnes." People usually just smile back, but hey I have news for you I mean I know body language and attractiveness is important, but I don't speak Korean so the whole conversation would be hard. I mean I suppose if I only wanted sex, that would be easy with all the girls that try to flirt with me on the street. I mean it is so the culture here, but ooh! Everything is about couples sometimes including Christmas Day is like a couple holiday here, GRR! I mean if I meet someone or while I am here go on some dates, I am not going to complain. If I fall in love in Korea, okay but that is one thing. I am just sick of people talking about how lonely I must be, I need a girlfriend, or I just need what shall we say some "physical" touch. A little freaky when I don't know a person that well and they are telling me what my needs are, okay . . .
I am just venting a bit on this subject because it seems to be everywhere and come up during everything.
I'll tell you when I go on a date. . . I do have two free movie tickets!
1 comment:
no need for a girl! I agree :D!
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