What is This??

I find myself thinking lately what is happening with me. This woman I like is causing me to feel pretty crazy! I have not slept a lot a couple of nights because of some cliff hanger conversations through text message. Going from feeling like there is no hope and that she doesn't like me to pretty sure she is interested, but mad at myself for getting so worked up over it because what if nothing happens. We text a lot through the day and usually in the mornings before I go to work we talk on MSN for about an hour. I find myself getting nervous and worried that something happened or maybe she doesn't like me if I don't hear anything after a while.

She has matched me as far as being a competitor in this wild psychological ride I have been on. It's like she almost wants me to tell her "I think you are beautiful, smart, your English is good ~ why worry about it."Which I have gone way out on my limb on this one and it is so exciting but at the same time very scary because she is so good at playing the game too, or at least I call it a sort of game. Like this Saturday evening I am hoping we go on another date and she said yes, but now she is like maybe, I don't know yet. But since I told her I would plan it she keeps asking about my plan, or "what is your good plan?" Tomorrow I made a card, or invitation sort of thing. . . so I am hoping that takes out the maybe and she tells me for sure yes, I am going.

I can't believe I have let myself get so worked up over this. . . but I kind of hope she is a little bit worked up about me too. It is so exhilarating, nerving, exciting, a happy feeling that is getting harder and harder to control. . . .

I am going insane!

A Very Nice Date Story!

No, this is not "A Dating Story" on TLC. . . but I did have a very good date Saturday evening, maybe the best or one of the best I have ever been on, not that I date a lot. So, there isn't a lot to compare it to. . .

Anyway, Saturday evening I met the woman I like at a subway station well actually outside, she picked me up in her car. Anyway, we went up by the university she went to and works at and we went to dinner at a Korean restaurant. We ate a very spicy pork dish, which was very good and talked and so on. It was a good time.

Then we went to the University which was very pretty and it was a very beautiful night with a nice cool breeze. We went to this one place, building called Peace Place which is an opera house, and it was beautiful. We walked around and took some pictures of me and then a couple or tried to take a couple "self-ca" pictures with her handphone but there was a lot of laughing and joking doing this.

We drove around some more and she showed me some sights on campus. I learned she already has her Ph.D. which was quit a shock. Immediately my mind brought up my stereotypical views and ideas about people with their Ph.D's. (Mind you there is nothing wrong with them ~ and I applaud those very smart people.) But I do have to admit I can't help but have the view of professors who have no fashion sense or personality outside of their area of interest, and are in general kind of cold people. I know not all of them are like this ~ for example the social welfare professors some were very cool people. But I have met some that meet these stereotypical views. So, don't hold it against me. But anyway, this woman is very beautiful (my opinion), smart, fashionable and in shape. Her first major was physical education and her other degree is in nutrition.

After going to Peace Place guess what she happened to have in her trunk and what we ended up doing for a while. We played basketball or shot the ball around, and she was much better than me maybe. At one point I ran all the way down the hill to get the ball that bounced off the court. It was a lot of fun though and hot, I had to take off my shirt and only wear my T-shirt I got so sweaty. We had fun doing that though. . . .

Then we got into her car and she didn't know where the parking ticket or the permit to be on campus was in her car. We maybe looked for a good ten minutes and got out of the car and everything, I finally found it on the floor. That was a bit amusing. Then she dropped me off from the subway station from there and it took me about an hour to get home. It was a pretty good date in three hours I would say.

Today after church. . . not at church we didn't get a chance to really talk or say anything to each other. I met her and another friend at McDonalds near the church in a shopping center by the subway station. Of course we didn't eat anything, I gave her one of my CDs that I think she would like. . . she did of course!^-^ I met another woman from church too, who she is friends with and then my friend came that is my age because we went to dinner. My friend was like, "her, she is an old woman!"

For me, though age has never crossed my mind. I think she is very beautiful and looks quit young and if we like each other, who cares?? I mean it isn't like she is so old that it is like disgusting that I would consider her. Does anyone else have some strong opinions or reasons though why I shouldn't be happy with how this is going and not date her?? Anyone, please speak up and I will consider your opinion rather or not has anything to do with my own decisions. . . probably not.

Good weekend! (I also saw Oceans 13 - I liked it and found it amusing!)

Thanks for a couple of people letting me know that they are still reading this blog.. . . it makes me a little bit more encouraged to keep writing. Also, the few of you that are fortunate to read this blog, know how I sometimes portray a more personal and different side of things then I do in my emails to the masses. So, I will keep on because I like to write.



Remember the woman I told you about in the last blog?? It is still going and going well I think. I actually might be getting a little bit crazy over the whole thing, but she definitely seems to be interested in me too. We talk in the morning usually if she is on MSN messenger at work in the morning and I am at home for a while. If not, we usually send text messages throughout the day in conversation or what have you. (I have even forgotten to shave the last two days because I have been so wrapped up in talking to her. . . ^^) Tonight, she told me she felt a little down because of all her stress from work and stuff so I sent her a picture of me through the phone. I think it was good because she liked it. I will see her in the morning at the pray service at 6:30, but unfortunately she has to work tomorrow, give a lecture.

I am pretty busy and tired myself. I worked out everyday this week. . . ^^ I hope I am getting stronger and a better body. Work was work, but I have some crazy students sometimes, but it's fun! This week has been very hot and humid at times though and with no air con in my apartment sometimes it isn't too fun with only a fan. In general, I am feeling pretty happy, excited, and nervous about life right now and what is happening! ^--^

Does anyone still read this blog?? Or are my posts just going up there somewhere in the Internet black hole with the rest of the useless stuff up. Let me know. . . because there is some exciting stuff possibly happening in my life and I want some of you to know about it!!!

My contract at my little academy or my so called job is only 12 months instead of 15 supposedly. So, that will end around the beginning of October I guess, and at that point I will probably be heading back to the States for 2-3 weeks before I head back hopefully with a better academy with a better schedule, and some more money. Right now, yes, I am thinking I am going to stay in Korea for another year!
I know that is kind of a big step and decision to make, but it is only one more year.

I have become very interested and someone that goes to the church I go to, and I think she is quit possibly interested in me too. I will keep you posted, but just know for now she is very beautiful, a nutrionist, very smart speaks English, German, and Korean, and loves God! We'll see, I will definitely let everyone know if somehow I end up with a girlfriend, or in Korea we would say "if I make a girlfriend." hahah!

Let me know ~ if anyone is out there reading this please. . . else I might stop this blog forever!

Dropping Bombs!

My boss informed me tonight in the middle of a class that I will be leaving soon because my year is almost up in October! But wait a second didn't I sign a fifteenth month contract, so that gives me till December right?? I didn't really get to talk to him about it, but I said is my contract 15 or 12 month, he said 12. That means it will end at the beginning of October ~ ~~what?!!?

I only have three and a half months left on this contract instead of six and a half! I was using that extra three months as a cushion to figure out what is next. I was even sure that after December I would be ready to leave Korea to something else. However, now that I realize that it is so close that I could possibly leaving Korea forever it is quit upsetting and stressful. I don't know if I can leave here yet, after only one year I need more time! I don't know, but I need to decide within the next two months probably what to do or sooner so I can get things in order for what is next for me. I don't know if I can leave Korea though. . . God has really blessed me here and I am just starting to feel comfortable and things are starting to go well and look up and up. . . .

AAHHHH!!!! What will I decide to do???

Stay tuned. . . this will probably get interesting!

Yeah for Holidays that Fall on Wednesdays!

Memorial Day in Korea is June 6th, which happens to be Wednesday. It is good and bad that it falls on Wednesday too bad it isn't a Friday or Monday or else it could be a three day weekend and I could go visit Japan or something. Anyway, but the nice thing it breaks up the week nice and neat. Also, I don't have any plans so I can sleep in as long as I want tomorrow for the first time in a long time without any obligations or other plans.

I am pretty tired though because I got less than six hours of sleep last night before I got up and went to church by 6:30 to pray. It was a good morning though and I felt very refreshed after that and one guy bought kimbap for breakfast. . . yummy! Anyway, another side note. . . it isn't the main reason I go to church that early at all, but the woman that I like goes every morning. She is an elementary school teacher and a couple of years older than me and is a very nice, joyful person. She must know that I am interested in her, but I don't know if she knows how to answer me. Her English is getting a lot better though since I first met with her and another friend maybe a month ago. She must be studying or trying more or something because we can talk to each other now. I asked her to have a cup of coffee with me on Monday, but she is going with a church friend tomorrow to play in another city in the East of Korea. Her church friend is another woman, but when she told me her name on the bus today, which is 희미, and it sounded like "he me". I was like "he?" and know it is a girl, she kind of smiled when I asked that. I am praying about this and who knows maybe she is praying about me too.

That is a big secret - so ssh- - only one of my friends knows that here. I have a lot of secrets here because it seems to be a big deal, people talk too much here!

Other than that, I am doing much better this week in everything. I have worked out everyday so far and seem to be getting back into it, at least I hope so. I am spending more time with God and in His word and really have a desire for it. Work is going better and seems more fun, especially today even after I should've been more stressed when they told me more students left.

That is all for now. . .

Time to Put it in Gear Again.

This is a picture of me a couple of weeks before the family came over here at the site of the Great King Sejong's tomb. King Sejong is a king that was very smart and invented many practical scientific and agriculture inventions. However, he is the most famous for essentially creating Hangul, the Korean written alphabet and language. This is about an hour outside of Seoul near the city of Yeoju, where I went with my friend to check out the Korea Pottery Biennial that is there.

Anyway, like this title is posted I need to get back in gear with my life again after my parents have left. A couple of ways, I am going to try to take a break from drinking or at least watch it more and try to go at it less for a while. I think this has effected my body in more ways than one. This week I went twice to work out since my parents left and I think I have lost muscle mass and I am weaker now. Today I couldn't lift the same weight amount I was before my family came. My goal for that is to work out four or five days a week and get back in gear with that and probably this month get some more personal training. I probably need it!

Tomorrow morning, I am going to return to the English service church after a couple of months before I go to the Korean church with some friends. My family made me aware of this and I think it is a good idea to attend a service that I can understand everything so I can get the most out of it. I need to do that for myself spiritually because lately I haven't been as good in that department as I should be. I think this is another thing that will help me in general right now with my life because I could be doing better in several areas.

I cannot believe it is June already, it really snuck up on me! I could take March, April, May, but June. . . crazy and that means I have been here eight months. I have seven months officially on my contract, so I am over halfway done now. It is definitely starting to feel like summer too and is very humid here sometimes, my one fan sometimes doesn't seem like it will be enough this summer.

I am also still doing my best to learn Korean and want to be more focused still and continue to advance. I know, right now that I am not thinking I will stay in Korea after this contract is over, so why learn Korean? I still think it is important and something to do to further my intelligence. Plus, I feel like if I ever wanted to date someone that I like from the church or whatever I need to learn more and more Korean. That is another thing to think about though what if I start dating someone and it gets serious, or worse I fall in love? Would I stay in Korea, be stuck here and never make it to Central or South America??

I am keeping busy, plus who can forget work that still takes up so much of my time. I am making good money and still saving enough. . . it is hard sometimes.

By the way, I think June probably snuck up on me so fast this year because well first, life is busy. Also, this is the first time that I am not on a semester schedule and really don't have like a big summer break, so time just all goes together. That kind of makes sense but I hope I get a break sometime soon maybe before the holiday in September because I would love to maybe check out Japan or China!

Till next time. . .