So next time I put up a post it will be from South Korea, how wild is that?!!! My last night (well my last full night) in the US and suddenly I had this thought about how I ended up at this point, you know getting ready to go to Korea to teach children English for a little bit more than a year. Like this is definitely one of those where it is like never in a million years would I have imagined this scenario for myself, but here I am. There are so many things like that in my life where looking back at them I see how things fit and how that came to be, but so many times before like I am now, I thought okay. . . how did I end up here? It is just kind of funny and I think sometimes God had a crazy sense of humor when He made my life plan, like He must've known somehow that I needed an extra spontaneous crazy life to keep me guessing all the time and on the ball. You know. . . but I am glad He didn't pick a boring life for me, but at the same time does God create people for boring lives? No, surely not.

It is really interesting too to note that I am not really scared or nervous about this trip. I just feel excited and good. I don't know if I am setting myself up to be let down, but for some reason my mind is like telling me, "don't worry, you'll going to love it, you aren't going to have problems making friends, etc. " Like I am ready for some surprises of course and some that I'll have to get through, but I am not worried at all, it is a super great feeling! I remember when I was about to go to Guatemala for six weeks being very nervous and worried and that didn't turn out bad. Maybe I am overconfident. . . . you think?

I have to say I have always been interested in the Lost in Asia blog and more recently the Crabby Rangoon blog that I have discovered this week from Lost in Asia. I don't really know them that well, but know who they are and it is amusing to me to read about how they are adjusting to Hong Kong. Ah, Asia it is a lot to look forward to, I can tell!

Something to Watch

I am addicted to the Travel Channel, I love it! Well, tonight I watched two episodes in a row of the new series called Moms on the Road: Africa. I think anyone who has access to the Travel Channel should look this show up and watch it. It is about I think eight American women who are moms who come from different areas and backgrounds and go to Africa. They are going to be in like four different countries in six weeks and they all come with different preconceived notions, expectations, etc. The social work part of me just is like this is awesome! It has these women who are so different with such different lives and about what they bring with them from home to the experience, what happens in Africa and how that is all effected by what they brought to the table before it even started, the relationships between the women. They were in Cape Town South Africa the two episodes I saw and like one day they pretty much buid from scratch a play room at like an orphanage type of situation in a very poor are and then they go to the 5-Star hotel on the water for the next two days and the feelings and what goes on. There is one lady, named Pat, the oldest one there that happens to be an African-American woman who I think is the neatest lady. She is grounded, she has done her research about the Africa and the countries before she went, she looks like a great social worker to me on all aspects and just has that sage aurora about her. Then there is another lady married for fifteen years and announces on the trip that she is leaving her husband because she is gay, and then some of the other women are like "Yeah, Good for you!" Wait a second. . . I can support her decision and try to understand, but really applause and shouts of joy I don't know if I could do that. There are other consequences there does she not see them? Hello! Anyway. . .everyone if you have access watch an episode!

By the way, I am leaving for Korea on Saturday now officially since I have a plane ticket! Yeah for me, and I'll have an eight hour delay in Chicago, but oh well what can you do. I'll arrive in Korea at 5AM Monday morning, which is 3PM Sunday Kansas time.

5 More Days!

I am getting pretty excited and restless about leaving to start my new life (well not exactly new, but a new chapter) in Korea! I am still expected to leave next Friday morning sometime even though I don't have an official plane ticket yet. Apparently the school was late in giving the agency their credit card number to book the first ticket, so now they have to rebook it. They promise me though that I am still leaving on Friday because the school expects me to get there on Saturday. I won't have my own place for at least the first week and I will be staying with Charlie himself, of Charlie's EFL College (the school that I'll work at for fifteen months). He lives in the middle of Seoul in a very nice part by Lotte World (amusement park in the middle of the city) and Lotte World Hotel and shopping mall. My friend who works for the census department in Korea told me that I am a very lucky man because I will be in such a famous and very rich area of Seoul. My other friend is excited about my arriving too, I am taking her some makeup and books that she ordered to. She is like you will be arriving for Autumn which is very beautiful here and mountain climbing. Then I'll probably see the other guy too that I haven't met yet, my friend's friend. I have his cell phone number and everything and I think he is excited to meet me. I hope I end up really liking it there and its not two months into it I am so depressed and ready to break the contract and lose all kinds of money and come home. I hope I like the food and can get used to it alright, that is my biggest fear. if not I'll have to go to all the American places everyday I guess and spend tons of money!

I also have to think about all that I am leaving behind here though in the states by going to Korea. My grandma is dying of cancer and if she goes like a week after I am there, I don't know if I'll see the funeral. But the funny part is though that in the last three weeks I have seen her more than my brother and dad and rest of the family becuase they don't really go near death. Plus we have never ever been super close to her. My other grandparents came down this weekend and will be down until Monday morning. My 81 year old grandma keeps talking about how she doesn't think she'll be alive anymore when I get back, which is a little bit of a downer. But everyone seems to be supportive and understanding except for all this talk of death.
What about all of my friends though? Will I still be good friends with some of my best friends when I come back or whatever happens? I guess it will help me realize the people who truly are my good life long friends, but I am not too worried I have a lot of life long friends already I think. So much will change, but a lot will stay the same I hope like my family and friends and the love for and from them. Okay, I am not going to start being too sappy and sentimental.

Packing is pretty much done. . . except for the stuff I won't pack until the day or two before. I am doing really good though with the two suitcases that I'll check in I am hoping to be at 100 lbs total or under which is good (considering that I took 45 lbs to Cape Cod this summer for five days)! It still makes me laugh that I ended up taking that much! I am having a little bit of trouble at times trying to make myself face the question of "do I really need to take this?" There has been some taking stuff out of the luggage and then later repacking it back or spending ten minutes deciding if something should really come out or stay in. I think I'll be fine though.

I am ready to go!

Another Book

Tokyo Cancelled is another book that I just recently bought and finished aobut four days. It is a book about 13 people who find themselves stuck in the Tokyo Airport for a night because of snow. They are from all over the world and a Japense man suggests that they all tell a story to pass the night. Well, it begins and the stories are set in modern time all over the world; China, Poland, Germany, England, US, Japan, etc. All the stories are fiction or so we are led to believe with strange twists and some almost fairy tale, fantasy stuff going on. They all start in one way and then end up in an unexpected way, I thought and some left you feeling happy, confused, sad, or hurt. I thought this was an interesting read.

Quick note about my departure date it is now I believe going to be Friday September 29th instead of Wednesday, but that is only 2 more days to wait. I am so ready to go!

Well, I can't sleep. I thought I was tired and tried to go to bed tonight before 11 o'clock, but instead I turned the computer back on to check the email and blog while sipping some wine. I turned another year older today, I am still very young, but at the same time is it possible to feel sort of old even though you aren't. I mean I know in the grand scheme of life I am still pretty young, but turning 23 just feels weird. I remember when we thought people who were seniors in high school and 18 were old and look at me now, I've passed that now by five years. I think I am pretty happy with what I have done thus far though and I am even more excited to see what happens in the next 30, 40, 50, 60, even 70 years for my life! But for the record after 25, I won't be counting any more at least for a while and I will remain 25, haha! Oh I am growing up. . . . maybe in 10 more years I'll consider myself grown up!

But lately since I have been at home a lot and been bored I have been reflecting back on some things. So, picture me just graduated from high school and then a couple of months later I moved up to Lawrence Kansas to go to college. My first year of college I did somewhat okay with keeping up with my good friends from high school or so I thought. And then after that I don't know I had my own friends from college, who by that point I was closer to and everything was different at home. People went different directions or had new friends too, and I kind of put a lot of distance between them and me. I don't think I ever felt ashamed of my "roots" or whatever, it just with time I didn't want to keep revisiting that and acting like things never changed from high school. A lot of my friends think that I thought I got all better for them and brushed them off or that I changed and was more serious and grown up acting, which was bad. They all liked the crazy fun guy from high school, which I still am. But at the same time looking back at it now how I acted in high school was almost embarrassing for me knowing that I was so immature at the expense of everyone's laughter and jokes, but that is what everyone liked about me. Then I heard the rumors from my brother about what people were saying about me who I went to high school with, even some of my good friends that I was gay and all of this. Who started that up and made that up because that hurt a lot and of course I don't want to talk to those people then and distanced myself further. Anyway, I don't know why exactly I distanced myself away from everyone so much, but if they looked back I checked out of high school by the end of my junior year. Do not get me wrong I had a lot of fun in high school and some great friendships, but now I consider myself close to only about one or two people from my high school and one of those has been on the downhill for a while. Personally, I am offended when some of my friends tell me or I hear that they don't like the "new Ty" or "why did I have to change?" Hello, not all change is bad and I feel like change is necessary and if anything I have changed for the better. I think it is selfish for people to ask or tell other people, "don't change" or "never ever change" "we liked who you were in high school and how much fun you were." It is like telling me now that you aren't as much fun and that maybe you've changed but we haven't so what is wrong with you? I know part of this is all my fault that I distanced myself away from my "home" or "roots" but I don't regret that for a second because that is not who I wanted to be forever. Maybe I should've hung out with more people over the years while I was at home, but I didn't because I was worried about how I was perceived or felt like there wasn't much in common between everyone anymore. So, yes I am partly to blame, but should I feel guilty about that and the decisions I made? Like today I had a friend from high school post a message on facebook today for my birthday that said, "Happy Birthday long lost friend!" Okay yes I read way too much into the words long lost friend, but ouch on a couple of levels. I got past that and later left a message on his wall. . . . who knows? This is one of my eternal conflicts about being back in Missouri after I went to KU that first semester because ever since nothing about "home" has ever felt the same. Well, maybe it is the wine. . .

I am reading another interesting book called Tokyo Delayed that I got at Barnes and Noble on Saturday night. Maybe I'll finish it tomorrow and then post a book review for you all.

Wednesday September 27th will be the day that I leave Springfield Missouri and will arrive in Inch'on Korea (very near Seoul) on Thursday September 28th. I am not sure how I am going to get another week though. I have either been sleeping, watching TV, or reading and doing a little bit of volunteering. So, I finally have a departure date!

This is the book I just finished reading in like three days. I have a paperback addition and it looks different. This book was good, highly disturbing, sickening, thrilling, suspensful, and powerful. If you can get past two words coming up in the same sentence in this book like cannobolism and babies then you should be able to read it. It still leaves you feeling pretty sick to your stomach in parts though, but once you realize what is going on you are into the story and can't put it down. Pretty much there are two different stories going on at once, the first in Nanking (Nanjing) in 1937 during the Japanese takeover and massacre and the other is in modern day Tokyo in the year 1990. It is a story about a young British woman who goes to Tokyo to do research about what happened in Nanking in 1937 to prove to herself and everyone that she is not crazy. There are a lot of issues going on with her that develop as this story goes that intertwine with the this Chinese professor she goes to see to see a video from Nanking in 1937. Well, he won't let her see it and says okay but you have to do something else for me. This leads her to working as a hostess in a shady Japanese men's club and leads her to the Japanese mafia I guess. This story is fiction, but in 1937 and throughout the twentith century up until the Japense were defefated in WWII, the Japanese did try and did invade a lot of China and Korea, etc. So, if you are into being disturbed and shook up but in an almost powerful important way then read this book!

Visa Process Information

I woke up this morning and good news was in my hotmail inbox. The school had finally received my visa confirmation number and then passed it on to me. So, today I got the rest of my documents and money order in order to send to the Korea Consulate in Chicago to finally get that visa sticker on the passport. This should take only four to five business days and then it will be overnighted back to me. The school in Korea is going to buy my plane ticket there and then I guess send it, they asked me what airport was the closest to me. I still do not have an official departure date which is driving me a little crazy. I am supposed to call the consulate on Thursday and see how things are going and see when I might have my passport back with the visa. The school told me in their email that the first week of October there might not be school because it is like Korea's Thanksgiving week. I don't know if that means I'll go after that or what. But with the visa and everything, everything should be ready to go sometime middle next week. So technically I am ready for this adventure to begin, thus why can't I leave lets say as soon as next weekend or the last full week of September? Anyway, so maybe I'll get my visa on my birthday, my birthday present this year acceptance to go to Korea, all that I would want on my 21st birthday!

I am also reading a very exciting, weird, suspensful novel right now called The Devil of Nanking. More later on this once I finish it, but let us just say I was a little bit scared last night trying to go to bed.

My 100th Post: Rememberance and Reflection

Tomorrow is 911 the fifth anniversery 0f 9/11/01 and we all know what that is of course. I recently wrote an email to a friend not meaning to talk about 911, but somehow ended up discussing it in a lengthy paragraph. 911 did affect me rather I saw it then or rather I see the big picture of how it changed me now or not. But the fact remains the same I remember that day five years ago like it was yesterday. Some of my thoughts or how I reacted I am not super proud of or would like to admit, but no matter how much I almost consider and would like to consider myself a foreign 911 always reminds me of how American I really am! I remember being in my high school library that first hour of school my senior year like I usually was because it was my independent study of sociology that semester. I remember the two girls in my class, that everyone kind of thought were crazy, who were the library aids that hour came in from the office and were like we heard on the radio in the office about a plane and as building in NY and all of this stuff. I think I thought they lost it and just kept doing my normal stuff. Then the bell rang and I made it to my second hour class, Spanish 4, and the TV was on and we all just sat there and silence. The one tower had smoke coming out of it and all of that and not to long after that we saw the second plane go in and then the buidings started to collapse. We sat there in silence, I was shocked, like we couldn't believe it! It looked like a movie, like this cannot happen to the US, no way. I think I started to tear up and we were scared because for the first time I think most people in the US thought, "yes, it can happen to us." But anyway it happened and then in southwest Missouri even as were watching it things started to almost start to feel like normal in a weird way. But I was scared for a lot of superficial reasons becuase I was turning 18 the next week on September 19, and the next thing that came to my mind was a big war. Oh no, there is going to be World War III and there is going to be a draft and I am going to go and my life is going to be over! No college, no getting married because I'll go to war and die or even if I don't my life will be forever changed. Sad, but I so remember thinking that! And then the rumor started to go around that gas prices were sky rocketing and that gas was in shortage and I didn't have much gas in my car, oh no! I remember thinking what am I going to do and I have to go to work tonight at McDonalds and work in the grill. That day was weird, everyone was somber, no one made us do any work if we didn't want to and we could watch the TV all day if we wanted to. I remember doing that and then going to work that night after maybe a light cross-country practice (I can't remember if we ran or not). I made my dad come to McDonalds and get my car and fill it up with gas, some gas stations got in a lot of trouble that day for taking advantage of the 911 situation. That Thursday that week we found out that we weren't going to the KU cross-country meet anymore because of 911 (where I was planning on going to college) and we were going to run at Joplin instead. Then the next week, a kid in my brother's grade died on my birthday he had an unexpected brain anerism at school one day. I remember going to See You at The Pole the next morning and thinking wow, this is cool all these people came to pray, but it was about the death. I remember taking my brother and three of his friends to the funeral and a lot of people were affected because my high school was only around 500 people, so there went the birthday. And my brother was pretty close to him and his sister was in my grade so those two weeks were pretty rough all over. I think at the time though I was pretty superficial, and brushed a lot of it off, but felt very patriotic and American for a while like a lot of people. I think that was a good summary of the first half of September of 2001 for me in my life as a senior in high school.

Since then. . . I think things have changed since 9/11/01. I graduated from high school, went to KU, and now I have graduated from college and soon to be in Korea to teach English. I think as much as I disagree with American foreign policy and a lot of other things 911 has more meaning to me now maybe. After growing up some and having a greater appreciation for the world and all cultures and my rich experiences, I will always remember 911. I don't know if it is ever going to get easier for this nation to move on and get past it completely, but how horrible! I do not even have tangible first hand pain or sadness from a person I knew from that day, but it is still sad. I remember going to Washington D.C. two months after that in November the week before Thanksgiving for a political leadership conference. My parents almost didn't let me go, but I remember driving by the Pentagon on a bus and still seeing the giant hole in it where the plane hit, it was so eerie. I remember sitting in the capital where the Senate meets and I think a Senator speaking saying you know a plane was headed for here too or something like that. 911 chaged a lot, but I think for me I really haven't seen the full picture until now after everything. Watching the specials, seeing kids growing up without a parent because they died that day all of that, it might not have been as Hurricane Katrina but still a big deal. (do not get me wrong Hurricane Katring was huge and a lot of work still needs to be done, and I fully think we should continue to work on that.) 911 thought. . . I'll always remember!

Well, this post was for me than anyone else. God Bless.

Yesterday I left for Lawrence and came back this morning. You know me, I just take off on trips with little thought or I leave the next day after I decide to go somewhere. I think that this whole lengthy process (which hasn't been to lengthy) to get to Koreas is killing me. But anyway a friend called me on Sunday and was like you should come to Lawrence it is so and so's birthday and she is having a little get together tomorrow afternoon in a park. And then it was also two girls (identical twins) from Saudi Arabia's birthday yesterday night and they had a little party. These girls have the most beautiful eyes I have ever seen, but that is not the point of this post. In addition, my friend from Costa Rica is been bugging me like when are you going to come up and visit it me before you leave. And you know me going to Lawrence is like going home, and once people find out I am coming it is like a battle to try to see everyone, or plan accordingly. Anyway, so I got to Lawrence yesterday and had lunch with a friend and then we went to another friend's house for a bit to hang out and have dessart. Then I went to the other friend's party in the park and saw a bunch of people there, which was nice. Then I went to pick up my friend from Costa Rica and have dinner with her. That was very nice to catch up on everything, a lot has been happening in her life. I hope things get better for her. Last night was an exception to becuase I didn't speak in Spanish at all we just used English. SHOCKING! Then I went to the Saudi girls' party and had a lot of fun there hanging out and seeing a lot of people. Then I went to my brother's place (brother from my Miami family during Spring Break) to spend the night on his futon. He hooked me up and of course it was good to see him and catch up a little bit. Of course I did not get to see everyone and I feel bad about that, but that is how it goes. I already miss everyone though and maybe will try to go up one more time before I leave the States for a while. I am waiting to hear back any day now with the reservation number to go ahead with the visa process. Well the visa process has already started and with the reservation number it will speed things up considerably and then hopefully I'll have an expected departure date! WOW!

I am still waiting to hear back from Korea about my visa. I am hoping maybe sometime tonight to hear back from them that they got my reservation number. Then all that is left to do is send everything to the Korean Consulate here and get the visa on my passport and then work on booking a plane ticket. When I get the reservation number I should have a tentative date of departure I am hoping.

In the mean time I thought I would offer an update about what is going on here in Missouri and with a couple of notes on two books I have read or in the process of reading.

The first book, Snow by Maxenee Fermine is a very short book only 100 pages that is fairly easy to read. It is about a young man named Yuko in Japan whose passion is snow and writing haikus about snow and it's beauty. He ends up going to a great Master in all of Japan named Soseki, to perfect his art. Well, Soseki is a famous painter and Yuki goes to learn how to add color to his art. When he writes about snow it is just white, almost nothingness. Yuki learns though that snow is a common powerful thread between him and Soseki that is beautiful. I personally think this book is a beautiful story almost written like a long poem, but others of you might find this book to not be so great as I do.

So, I started volunteering at the Salvation Army here in Springfield on Monday or Tuesday for about an hour a day during the kids homework time. Yes, I am working with kids in the after school program mainly fourth and fifth graders do their homework. I like it alright, it is only an hour though and I don't get paid but I feel like it is important nonetheless and not just for experience. Yesterday I helped a girl do her math homework, a smart girl from what I can tell, but she acted like a cat the whole time. My parents don't seem to happy with me at this point for volunteering there for an hour a day Monday through Friday until I leave. It is a good twenty or twenty-five minutes away from my house, so I understand that a little bit. Plus, I think there is a stigma in my family about the Salvation Army and that side of town that they don't want to be associated with. I don't really care and if they think the bad side of Springfield is rough, well I got some news for them that I have been in way worse. They know this, but it is not like I can get a job for two maybe three weeks before I leave that I want to do. My mom thinks I must be rich if I can drive that far and volunteer without getting paid. She is weird sometimes, my parents are like you have money do whatever you want, its your business. But at the same time they want to know everything about what is going on. . . ay parents! At this point, I can't live without them, but really can't live with them much longer either! haha

I went to see my grandma yesterday too at my great aunts house because that is where she is staying now, which is by the Salvation Army. She is not doing to well these days. She looked very weak laying on the couch just skin and bones and a scarf covering her bald head. She seemed to try to be sleeping or sleeping a lot of the time while I ended up talking to my aunt. Her mind does not seem to be all there either anymore, she cannot remember much or doesn't talk to well. It was a bit hard to see her, I will go over there at least a couple of more times I am sure before I leave for Korea. I guess she is staying at my aunt's house now since she was in the hospital this last weekend. Her blood cells are way down and she can't take any more radiation unless those go up. She fell down into the mirror at her house not too long ago which did not help the situation. Please pray for my grandma. . . and my family. My dad tends to get distant almost in situations like this. He talks to my grandma (his mom) but he really won't go and see her because he is so scared of death it seems like and is afraid to appear weak or sad. Anyway. . . too much information.

The second book that I am reading right now and have been reading for a while is The Two Koreas. It is the history of the two Koreas from the Korean War till the present time or 2000 maybe when the book was written. It is a very detailed book, very interesting and informing. There is so much that I have never known, it is fascinating. I am very impressed with this book and how much I am learning!

That is about it for now, till next time.

Last night I watched a very entertaining movie I guess on BBC America, Shakespeare Retold of The Taming of The Shrew. It was funny and I got a good laugh from it, The Taming of the Shrew a interesting story. But anyway, I have been thinking about it some more and related issues. For example, I do not want to marry some woman who wants to just sit there and follow my orders or get married and starting popping out my eleven kids one by one, one every year. I really actually would like to marry someone who is confident, has a career, has a direction in her life. I want to know she could and can make it on her own without me if she needed to, not one of those dependent relationships (like I am the oxygen tank keeping her alive.) I mean, yes I want to be wanted and needed, but come on give me a break! I want my opinions and voice to be heard and decisions to be decided jointly and each of us being considerate of the other at all times, etc. Okay, I know this is the ideal situation, but I don't want it to wake up someday and be living in one of those old fashioned family stereotypes with the very rigid gender role thing going on. I am the guy who actualy doesn't care if my wife is bringing home most of the money because most likely she will be. I won't be jealous or whatever, I know most people think yes the guy always is, but I don't think so. So my question is am I being unbiblical? Becuase you know a lot of conservative Christians would try to tell me that I am not being a man, or I need to step up and be that masculine whatever. I don't think so, or really don't want to believe it. I am leaving this open for discussion and guys you can speak up to not jus the girls coming in and going "what a great man you are!"

Okay, so I went to KU on Tuesday and got my diploma and transcripts finally! It was an okay day though I got to see a lot of friends, so that was very nice. I am still going to try to make it up there once before I go in probably around three weeks. Yesterdasy I FedExed my documents to Korea which should be there by Monday, I am having fun tracking my package. First, it went from Springfield to Memphis then Memphis to Anchorage and then. . . . we'll see. But by the end of next week I should be ready to do my part from here and actually get the visa and then I'll be on my way to getting a plane ticket and leaving.

I received a package today in the mail that I ordered through amazon.com, it is small books with CDs for kids to go with them to learn Korean. Well, it is a book but it is all in Korean characters, except for the translations in the back and the CDs are pretty much all in Korean! This is a hard language! I am going to try my best and hopefully learn some over there. Today I also was sent via-email the 62 page orientation guide book that footprints sends out before you go. It is interesting, but I know a lot of the things. One useful information is that take your own condoms, I guess in Asia they are smaller and they break easier. (No pun intended and I am not sure what that is saying.) And by the way I am not really planning on even needing to use a condom in Korea, but I thought this was weird. It does say that nowdays you are likely able to find western brand condoms though. Okay enough, sorry!

I am getting a bit nervous though and a little excited. I have a lot of small fears and uncertainties that all add up to make me feel quit uneasy sometimes, like going "What the hell am I getting myself into?!"

One of my good friends at KU from Taiwain, a grad student in the sociology department, emailed me today and was like I hope you take advantage of being in Asia and come visit me and my family in Taiwain. He is like I'll be over there for winter break and maybe in the summer and if you come to Taipai we will put you up and take care of you for a couple of days. I am like awesome, I would love to do that and will certainly try!

I also sent an email and a copy of my resume over to the Salvation Army today to possibly do some volunteer work before I go to keep busy. A lady called me today and was like yes, please come in on Monday and fill out the paperwork and you can probably help out in the social services department, etc. So, hopefully I'll have other things to do besides sit at home all day and do nothing. But I need to start thinking about packing I think and how that is going to work and happen (a little scared and intimidated by that trying to pack for fifteen months you know!)

AAHHH!

I feel nervous, excited, panicked, frustrated, sad, and happy all at the same time at this point about my upcoming move to South Korea! I found out today that I have to drive up to KU tomorrow morning to pick up my diploma and do the same day transcript thing because they are toooooo slow! They told me today after I finally connected with the University Registrar Office that my diploma would probably not be sent out until sometime late next week and the transcripts that I sent for on Friday probably not until at least September 1! What?! The school in Korea and everyone at this point wants to get rolling on the visa process like I do too especially since I already have a contract squared away. So, that leaves me with the option of driving to Lawrence tomorrow to get this taken care of once and for all. . .I hope! I'll also get to see some friends tomorrow, which is good but it'll be a short trip. Leave tomorrow morning early around 6:30 and come back tomorrow night. But I am also faced with the fact that my departure date keeps coming closer and closer, sooner than later and am I ready for that. Like I could leave within two to three weeks not a month or two anymore. Am I ready to start my fifteen month job and life in Seoul South Korea? A lot can happen in a year in three months, and I am going to miss my friends and family a lot. I will probably have to come home for about five days at some point for a funeral, but that does not really count. But really I don't know Korean, I have never formally taught English before and to kids in a private ESL school in Korea. Will I like it there or end up hating Korea with a passion? Will I make friends outside of the people I already know, will I like the people I work with? Will my parents come and visit me at some point during those fifteen months? What if I fall madly and deeply in love with some beautiful Korean Christian young woman? Will I make enough money to be able to save as much as I plan on? What will my apartment be like, will it work out? God is going to provide for me and take care of everything, but there are still a lot of questions and concerns that I have of course. Will any of my friends come and visit me? Probably not. . . but hey I am tough I can survive in Seoul South Korea for fifteen months and make a life for myself there, right?


That is all for now I guess.

Sleep sounds very nice right now at midnight on this Sunday night. I just finished watching Lost in Translation for the third or fourth time to keep the Asian theme going in my life right now. Charlie, from Charleie's EFL College in Seoul, called me tonight at about fifteen til nine because it is already Monday morning there. I still could not understand him the best, btu he wanted to tell me that the questions I had about the contract are okay. Everything is good and things can be added no problem like I requested and they want to work with me. Very nice! He wants me to be able to get my visa too and everything ready to go within maybe two weeks. This is a bit frustrating because KU is so slow with my diploma and transcripts, they are killing me here! I am going to call up there tomorrow and probably get no where fast, my parents said if I have to drive up this week and get my stuff then so be it. I agree, but just a bit of inconvenience. It is starting to sink in a little bit more now that I am going to be in South Korea and maybe three weeks to a month tops! And once again how long is 15 months, oh yeah I'll be over there for a year and three months! Do not get me wrong I am very excited, but I am going to miss people a lot! I have been a little bit stressed lately about everything going on and have not been sleeping that well at all and when I do of course I have weird dreams. I'll keep you all updated on the exact date of my departure when I know it. . . stay tuned.

The waiting game just ended about 10 till 9 tonight, not long after I posted. I got a call from the school in Seoul South Korea and let me tell you that was an interesting, funny, and frustrating conversation. I am supposed to be an English teacher, but I could not understand half of what the guy asked me or said. At one point, I felt really stupid he tried to ask me if I was a vegetarian. I had no idea what he said, I was like yes I am a Christian. And then I was like sorry two more times and finally was like can you spell that. That was pretty difficult too and then it finally dawned on me after like a minute or more I am sure that he tried to say vegetarian! Oh my! And then at the end he told me he called me because he received two applications with the pictures. He showed the kids the pictures and he called me because the kids liked my picture better! HAHA!

Hombreguapo is definitely guapo! Good looks get you far in this world - - - maybe a good English teaching job in South Korea. It is a 15 month contract - - - so all of you will have plenty of time to save some money and come and visit me!

We'll see. . . I'll keep you posted to let you know how things go with the contract and all of that.

Playing The Waiting Game

Yes, I am playing the waiting game. Waiting to hear about where and when for sure I will be going to South Korea to teach English and do that whole gig for a year. I am getting pretty exciting doing research and all of that stuff. I went to the library one day and got four books,I read a very insightful book from the Culture Shock series. I reccomend if you are going to a foreign country or even Chicago I guess. . . check out this Culture Shock series. My Korean phrase book though not so much, right now I can't say I am feeling to confident with any Korean. I am also reading a very interesting book right now called, The Two Koreas by Don Obderdorfer a contemporary history of the two countries in their relationship. There is so much I didn't know, I am learning a lot at this point I think. But the agency that is helping me find a position called me last night about an opening at a school in Seoul, the same area that the 1988 Olympics were. Pretty much in the middle of everything and it is another good position. I am hoping to know by tomorrow night though maybe more about the when for sure, but if not next week. They are working on it and I have to say I am impressed by them. So, yeah I am ready to leave and start my adventure in Korea. I have already sent emails out to my contacts in Korea. One girl who I know who is from Seoul gets back from Europe on September 5 and is like I will be a good friend and assistant to you. Then another man that I know in another city said to let him know when I get there, and I know he will help me out. Then I have a friend who has a friend doing an internship in Seoul right now and set me up with his email address, he is looking forward to hearing from me I guess. So, all of you who know me and smile when I talk about all the people and contacts I have in all corners of the world, well it is paying off. I think it is to the point that I could almost go anywhere in the world and I would know someone enough to trust that they would help me in anyway and take care of something if I needed it. I have to say, its pretty cool especially about this process so far and I am not even in Korea and I am in contact with three people already!

Other than that for the most part I feel trapped in this big house that my family lives in. I feel trapped in this affluent fortress of boredom, but there is nothing really to do or anyone to really do it with. I have been watching a lot of TV and reading. Right now I like the suedo-telenovela La Fea mas Belle, it is cute and funny, it makes me smile even laugh sometimes. And besides that I listen to a lot of 40 Principales, a radio station out of Madrid through the internet.

If anyone wants to come visit me in Missouri before I leave, you are MORE THAN WELCOME!

I had a great weekend! One of my good friends came down to Springfield on Friday night to visit and left today after lunch. He got in Friday night at around 10 and we c came back here and my friend had a little taste of the famous Springfield Cashew Chicken. We have like over 70 Chinese restaurants in Springfield, all with this famous Cashew Chicken. . . which isn't really Chinese, its an American creation. Saturday ended up being a busy day and we left here at about 10 in the morning and I showed my friend all the schools I went to including the high school I graduated from. Then we went to the Missouri Sports Hall of Fame and had a good time there, which I have not been to in a long time! Next, we went to Springfield Lake and the park area, where in high school we did the extreme hill work outs for cross country there. Next, we made it to Bass Pro to show my friend how big it really is and ate at the restaurant there, which was okay. Then I showed him out in West Springfield the school I went to in Kindergarten and first grade and the rental house we lived in. Wow, that has changed nothing much used to be out that way and now it is all built up and growing!

Then, we made it to Wilson's Creek Battlefield, which was one of the biggest Civil War Battles west of the Mississippi. It was the 145th Anniversiry of the battle this weekend. We went through the museum and drove through the area and walked around a bit. I learned a little bit always. . . of course growing up I always considered myself pro-Union you know and that Missouri was on the good side since we were part of the Union, even though they allowed us to still have slaves. Okay, just a sidenote here. . . I am totally against slavery and think that is one of the worst pieces of our history in the United States. I just wanted to get that out before I talk to much into detail about stuff. Well, anyway we were going through the museum which was a bit biased towards the South, which reflects a lot of peoples' views in this area still today. Anyway, I didn't realize thast Southwest Missouri was a pivotal area and Southwest Missouri wanted to split from the rest of the state and join the Confederacy. Springfield was a major strategic city for both sides. Anyway, even though Wilson's Creek was won by the South, they still lost a lot of men and the North achieved what it wanted. But I have to say it was very surreal to walk on the battlefied, at "Bloody Hill" where most of the casualties happened and to see the cannons there. It was like you could feel it that something happened there, it was a deep feeling. I cannot really describe it. But then of course in the museum and stuff it talked about how by the end of the war Missouri was pretty much in chaos and the Union armies and stuff pretty much went through and ravaged people and destroyed everything. I am sure in this very pro-Southern area the Union didn't forget to put shame on this area also like they did in much of the South. Once again I am not saying the South should've won or anything, but it is apparent still to me the feelings of resentment towards the North for what they did to the South. Almost like the saying, "those damn yankees!" Just my little speal about that. . .

After that we met my parents for dinner at a local pizza place and then we went to the Springfield Cardinals game, the St. Louis Cardinals Double A team. Those are a lot of fun and I am going again tonight with my dad since we have season tickets. Then after that my friend and I went out for frozen custard and I showed him Drury University. Then we went home and played pool and a game of chess with a drink.

Good weekend! I am hoping to hear some vital stuff this week about Korea, I am getting excited! I'll keep you all posted.

Annyong haseyo! This is a the general greeting in Korea between people. Well, last week I had a great phone interview about teaching English in Korea for a year and was pretty much accepted! I might be going. . . . very very soon! I am still trying to process everything but maybe as soon as the end of the month to start a position with the Global Leadership Academy in a modern suburb just south of Seoul! I am very excited and pretty much telling all my family and getting everyone prepared for this next crazy step in my life. My dad, on the other hand, tonight is trying to give me another guilt trip like he did sometime ago about or surrounding the events of a grandparent's death. This time my grandma is pretty much in her last bouts with cancer, she is down to like 85 pounds and I guess my dad told her on the phone last week about my plans and she cried and pretty much said she would never see me again. My brother and I are going to see her tomorrow I think, but it is kind of a sticky situation. I have not really been close to her since we were little kids and she took care of us a lot, and my dad is not really close to her at all. It is one of those things where it is like I love her and everything, but I can't put my life on hold because of her and her upcoming passing. Wow - I really went off there for a second, but I am really excited about this opportunity and chance to go to Korea! One year in Korea and then more opportunities open up in other countries like South America where I can really pursue one of my dreams in a Spanish speaking country! I'll keep you all posted on when the departure date will be officially and what I will be doing and all of that fun stuff.

In other news, I just got back today from my trip to St. Louis and to Chicago for one day. I left here on Friday and pretty much went to my grandparents house. We had lunch that day and talked and then went to my tio's house in Lake St. Louis because they were going to help me find my friend's mom's house that I was going to the next morning. Well, it turns out it is really a small world because mis tios know my friend's family because they lived right next to them before they moved into a bigger house on more land. I stayed at my tio's house that night because it was closer and my step-aunt had a pretty good talk with me about my grandparents. Everyone is starting to really worry about them and asked me to talk to my grandma since I can and I have the appropriate background and we are pretty close. The next step for them probably needs to be a retirement community kind of situation.

Anyway, I went to my friend's house Saturday morning and we drove to Chicago. Two of the guys went to a soccer game because Chelsea was in Chicago. I hung out with the two girls because I didn't want to pay $55 for a ticket and we walked around a lot and just enjoyed the beautiful day in Chicago. That night we rode a boat at Navy Pier, a skyline tour and saw the city from the water with all the lights and everything, really loved it. We all also rode the ferris wheel that night too and watched the fireworks and later live music til about midnight. We spent the night in a Howard Johnson in the suburbs. Then Sunday we pretty much hung out at my friend's house in the swimming pool, riding on the "gator" like a four wheel type thing but bigger all across the land. These people had a lot of money and had whatever they wanted, including a hummer. We played tennis on Monday morning which I am horrible at and then spent a lot of time in the swimming pool, good times! I had a lot of fun with my friends and that was the most important part that we got along and bonded.

Monday night I went back to my grandparents' house and spent the night with them, all day Tuesday doing all kinds of things and driving the whole time. It was actually quit tiring. Then I went to the doctor with them this morning as requested by my uncle and aunt and that was good because my grandma who is supposedly taking care of my grandpa isn't doing too well. My grandpa who has dimensia pretty much was supposedly keeping track of all his medicine and taking it when he is supposed to. . . yeah right! Well, my grandma who everyone thought was keeping an eye on him and monitoring this situation hasn't been this whole time, so who knows what is going on with that. I told her before I left she has to do that for him and she needs to get my uncle or aunt over there to make sure she does it right too! I was in shock when she said she had no idea what medicine he takes when or anything. . . sometimes it seems like she is slipping pretty fast too! Old age, well I would say at least past 75 does not look appealing to me right now at all, I hope to God that I'll be accepting when my time comes for all that comes with it. I am sorry if I sound like I am talking about this a lot, but it is definitely a topic that is in my mind a lot with my grandparents and also from my social work education.

I think that is all I am going to say tonight.

This could be a long one. . .

I just finished watching the movie V for Vendetta downstairs with my brother downstairs, which I bought yesterday when it came out. Ever since I saw it in Miami for Spring Break, it is one of those movies that really stirs me. It is all about questioning authority, rebelling against what is the norm, going against the government for a greater cause, a better society, and a better country. This movie obviously has a lot of parellels and messages about current politics, but it just makes me get excited. I hope that I am always questioning the government, policies, those in power, etc. and really participate in my government wherever I settle down and more than just voting. I want to be involved in protests, letters to the government in whatever country I find myself, I want my voice to be heard. Especially if someday I am a practicing social worker somewhere. . . maybe someday.

*Some very big news - - please note. I have a phone interview tomorrow about teaching English in South Korea for a year. This is very exciting because there are a lot of opportunities and I could make some money doing it to save up for one day going to a Spanish speaking country. But this is exciting news because I think I will probably be offered a position with my experience and everything, plus the phone interview is the last step in the process. There are some questions I have and will have to make sure everything is good if I decide to do it. If everything works out who knows maybe I'll be going as early as late September to early October??? It looks like I am not going to be setteling down in any one place for a while, which is a bit exciting, but at the same time a bit unnerving to really think about. I just want to see the world and do everything I can while I have time and I am young before its too late or something. It is so crazy, but at the same time really exciting to think that I could be somewhere in South Korea in maybe two months or something!

But for the time being I did move back to Missouri on Sunday and everything has gone for the most part smoothly. It is nice in someways to be here for a while, but in other ways it is just weird. I have found myself these last couple days like walking around my house just trying to get used to it and explore everything. I have seen it, but home is so different from the home I knew before I left for college four years on many levels besides the fact that my parents remodeled everything pretty much and everything looks so different. But even here I don't really have many friends left in the area and I feel so out of place here in Springfield like it isn't my city, but at the same time it is. But Friday I am going up to St. Louis to visit my grandparents and then I am meeting some friends there. We are driving up to Chicago on Saturday for the day and then will explore St. Louis a little bit on Sunday which I have already seen and then I'll stay up an extra day on Monday and spend it with my grandparents again. Who knows. . . I might see my aunt and uncle too why I am there? The truth of the matter is that right now I am more excited about just being in St. Louis again after a good while and seeing my grandparents. Yes, my friends are my family but it is almost too soon to really miss them so that part does not excite me a ton. Plus while we are in Chicago and St. Louis they are going to want to see things and keep busy you know. I have already seen pretty much everything in St. Louis, but hey I shouldn't take my time for granted with people. And then one of my good friends from Kansas is coming down here the next weekend, so that is exciting. Actually, it is my friend from Michigan, but now he lives in Kansas.

What else? I finished Love in the Time of Cholera one of my all time favorite books now. I never really know for sure how I feel about Floretino Ariza though even at the end when it is almost natural that him and Fermina end up together. It is such a weird story, almost feels like it is in another world, but at the same time it almost feels familiar and natural to read it like you are there and can feel the same things and see the same things the characters see. And there are many ideas or thoughts in it that are so right on in many ways I think, that you could almost see them as pearls of wisdom about life, relationships, marraige, etc.
Now, I am on to another book that I have also read before but in Spanish. Yes, I am reading Of Love and Shadows in English by Isabel Allende that I read earlier this year in Spanish. I am finding that I understand the story a little bit better this time because I don't have to try so hard to get everything and just can breeze through it. But at the same time, I am finding in parts where I read it and I can like picture myself or I remember reading that part in Spanish before and how I felt at that time. It is a very beautiful story in my opinion.

Well, that is about it for now for this portion in history of my life.