Hi Everyone ~

I just wanted to give an update after I got married. . . now I am a happy married man!

Anyway, I wanted to just pose some thoughts and if you have any opinions or anything you can comment. So, we got married and her parents came and her second sister came from Sydney. Except still no one knows other thann that in Korea or her oldest sister and two nephews in Sydney, which is still frustrating and a little hard to get my head around.

Which brings me to my point. . . I have felt like we are in exile here in America because we can't talk or really tell any of our friends at church in Seoul still. People that care about us and think about us often too, but because of Korean culture we can't say anything till who knows when. . ??
Anyway, I have emailed a friend a couple of times now without saying anything, but at the same time saying some things. I can trust this person and knows this person cares, but I am still afraid to be open or say too much. Like I have said, "everyone is okay here in America, or we have found a Korean church so that is good, etc. . ." The thing is everyone knows, but it was never official or brought out in the open, but I don't know. I want to say yes, I am with her we got married, etc. . but I don't know. What could happen??
Maybe I shouldn't, but I really wish I could tell someone or open up to someone still in Korea who knows everything, but not like I would like it to be.

Any thoughts?? Should I just keep my mouth shut or should I try to be more honest with this friend (knowing that he will keep my trust)??